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User Profile: rnellz
rnellz January 8th, 2015

I lost my virgnity and got chlamydiaall at the same time.
When i found out I was distraught because this was the first person I slept with.

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User Profile: Timm
Timm January 8th, 2015

That must have left you feeling awful, how did you manage to cope through it?

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User Profile: rnellz
rnellz OP January 9th, 2015

Life is about learning to forgive my friend

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User Profile: Timm
Timm January 9th, 2015

That is very true, and I very good look on life

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User Profile: rnellz
rnellz OP January 21st, 2015

It was hard to learn that but I did in the end

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User Profile: Barush
Barush January 9th, 2015

I am so sorry to hear that. Thank you for sharing your story with us, that's very brave of you!

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User Profile: rnellz
rnellz OP January 21st, 2015

Thankyou that is so sweet :)

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User Profile: lavenderSugar71
lavenderSugar71 January 16th, 2015

I know exactly how you feel. I got HPV, accused of cheating and left alone to cope with the news. I too felt distraught, ashamed and betrayed.

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User Profile: rnellz
rnellz OP January 21st, 2015

wow I am sorry to hear about that :( ! How are you coping now?

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User Profile: lavenderSugar71
lavenderSugar71 January 21st, 2015

Not so well I presume, seeing as I searched for this site.

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User Profile: Hettymae
Hettymae March 6th, 2015

How are you coping now is everything okay? Do you need someone to talk too?

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User Profile: lavenderSugar71
lavenderSugar71 May 3rd, 2015

Hi Hetty, sure why not. I have been having counsellingbut not sure if it is helping as I was unaware how much this affected me until recently, and there seems to be a lot of stuff that I need to work through.

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User Profile: tealVillage3791
tealVillage3791 January 21st, 2015

I cheated on my boyfriend and I may have chlamydia and I don't want to tell him because I love him

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User Profile: Musheratheart
Musheratheart January 21st, 2015

Best off going to see your doctor to get the clear. If you are active with your partner wouldn't it be worse to not tell them potentially give them chlamidiatoo?

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User Profile: tealVillage3791
tealVillage3791 January 21st, 2015

I have to wait till tomorrow at 1 to call the doctor so I'm going insane and I'm scared hell leave me

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User Profile: lavenderSugar71
lavenderSugar71 January 21st, 2015

@Teal I think its better to tell him, at least then if you do find out you have it or he has it, you will have taken steps to show genuine care. In my experience being lied to was just as bad as having the HPV because I felt betrayed and left alone to go through the process. Honestly not a great feeling. Also better to be honest than to have a relationship built on guilt, worry and lies. The truth eventualky somehow always finds us.

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User Profile: rnellz
rnellz OP January 28th, 2015

Have you found out what is going on?

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User Profile: niceGrapefruit6690
niceGrapefruit6690 March 6th, 2015

The positive is it isn't something worse like HIV. Chlamydia is curable ..go to a gyno/ planned parenthood and take the medication to clear it before it becomes an infection and affects your fertility. Also, it is a great awakening ..being sexually active now ..you now know the importance of condoms / safe sex.

User Profile: niceGrapefruit6690
niceGrapefruit6690 March 6th, 2015

Thanks for sharing hun.. We all make mistakes and everything will be ok.

User Profile: niceGrapefruit6690
niceGrapefruit6690 March 6th, 2015

The positive is it isn't something worse like HIV. Chlamydia is curable ..go to a gyno/ planned parenthood and take the medication to clear it before it becomes an infection and affects your fertility. Also, it is a great awakening ..being sexually active now ..you now know the importance of condoms / safe sex.

User Profile: TaylorNJ
TaylorNJ May 10th, 2015

thanks for sharing but make sure you go to your doctors and they will other physcialhelp to improve your health and get rid of this sti

User Profile: PetalsOnTheWind
PetalsOnTheWind May 28th, 2015

I am very sorry to hear that, it must have been very difficult. Thank you for sharing, it is brave of you and I hope you recieved the right medical treatment.