Sexual Frustrations
Hi, I am a 16 year old who suffers from libido development, sexual lusts, motivation, desire and attraction. Hypersexuality has always been my enemy for like 3-4 years now, and I know that it's going to wear off when I grow up, as stated that the peak for libido impacts are at around the ages of 15-16 for male individuals, and then it starts to cool down as they get old. My question is...how can I overcome it?
Satisfactory
I have always tried to satisfy myself with these thing...to actually calm the situation I sometimes watch porn, but then it gets boring and want to have personal experience myself. I tried online dating apps for hookups, but no luck because of being an underage. It's just unfair. Most listeners recommend me to look into committed relationships more rather than casual, as I might become a subject to trickery and scam as a naive underage. I don't know, I guess I'm a sucker for things like that for now, I just want to satisfy my fetishes, that's all. I have only 1 paraphilia and a couple of fetishes, that's all. No, I am not interested in intercourse acts at all, all of my fetishes are all outecourse and are comparatively innocent actions. Uhm...fair, foreplay-like, however you want to call them.
Hiatus
As much as I can't wait to do it, I guess everyone around me, even listeners, are right about that one thing, that waiting is truly the best medicine. It has so many benefits...finding the perfect love, valuable significant other, "less-rush-more-joy logic", and everything else. Of course it's better to lose your virginity with someone you love, adore, know, and you know that you're going to date her, call her, engage with her, and even marry her. And that's the good taste of committed relationships and its overwhelming benefits against casual relationships. However, due to my drastic situation, I also consider time/patience one of my most important elements, and that's where casual relationship has the key. In order to achieve comitted relationships, I must a lot of time, and must wait approximately 5 years in order for it to develop to the moment where I can finally lose it with my partner. That's too long, I'd probably be dead because of libido overload and sexual frustration and extreme desires.
Welp, that's my story so far, of course in summary though. I will leave a short description below about myself, so readers can get to know the situation a bit better. Thanks for reading, and thanks in advance for any support that may be delivered from your kind hands!
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I am attracted to 19 year olds, I don't have a girlfriend. I'm looking forward to hooking up (casual relationships, one night stands etc). I have no luck finding matches on online dating apps because I am an underage. I am interested in outercourse. I have a couple of fetishes paraphilias I'd like to satisfy. I am sexually addicted/attracted. I am a pervert. I ejaculate when I watch porn. I need help.
Thank you! :D
@Auditormadness9
(not responding to your question but just wanted to say your question belongs on the forum of sexual health. This is an anxiety thread.)
Well, obsessive thoughts of any kind are part of obsessive compulsive disorder, OCD, really.
We have a self-help guide for OCD, which might be some help, although it concentrates on compulsive behaviours and not so much on the thoughts.
Searching the Internet for obsession-only OCD might turn up helpful resources.
@Booklover95
@RarelyCharlie
He didn't mention it so I thought he would get better help in the sexual thread forum. My bad though.
it's good that you know your hypersexuality. perhaps there's medicine that can help calm you libido?