Sexual Frustration
Wanted to get a discussion going about sexual frustration. How do you guys cope with the long term pain of being sexually frustrated?
I've come to hate sexuality as a result of my long term frustration. I'm trying to be more positive about it, but i resent that I have sexual desires because I feel like they distract me from the things that really matter. That and they make me depressed.
@Deadtired2
have you been mastrabating???
@warmheartedsquare
because mastrabating can sometimes help but sometimes not.
@warmheartedsquare it doesn't really help. At most it just relieves me for a small moment
@warmheartedsquare it mostly makes me feel pathetic and sad
@Deadtired2 pathetic is a subjective concept. How does one be labeled pathetic? Either a.) Someone thinks of you as pathetic or b.) You consider yourself pathetic. In regards to a, why give that person the authority to decide what you are? In regards to b, why decide that you are pathetic when doing so only disables you further with unpleasant emotions? It's better to just focus on your positive qualities. Haven't discovered what they are yet? Then focus on the neutral for starters. You're in a situation that I imagine you got into fairly innocently. Unless you were a sexually abusive individual who was shunned from society, or something with similar karmic consequences... But I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you're in a situation you didn't directly cause and therefore shouldn't label yourself negatively because of it.
