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Painful but pleasurable, is it normal?

Yourenotalone123 April 27th, 2016

Okay, so I had sex with my best friend. Probably the worst mistake ever. But I did, and it hurt but, the pain felt good. Is that normal? I find it weird. I know to the guy, going hard is like...heaven to them. But I find it weird that (I'm a girl BTW) I found pleasure in that hard painful feeling. Is there something wrong with me? Or is that normal?

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live4logan April 27th, 2016

@Yourenotalone123

That is normal. The first time can be painful, but there is pleasure that goes with it.

You seem to have alot of questions about this subject, and that is ok. If you need to talk more candidly, I am here. :)

JohnCena11 April 27th, 2016

If you are a girl and its your first time it should be painful as the hymen breaks, usually. Nothing to worry about. There also may be blood. If neither of those things are true I suggest you see a doctor.

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Zahar April 29th, 2016

@JohnCena11 I learned not all women have a hymen, and sometimes it does not break.

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JohnCena11 May 3rd, 2016

@Zahar

Very true. The majority of women, however, have one. Other than that the only thing that might make the first time hurt is a lack of arousal which will cause the vagina to contract

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