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Yourenotalone123
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Do I have herpes??
Relationship Stress / by Yourenotalone123
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July 10th, 2016
...See more I don't know what it is, but every time I shave down there a few days later I will get 1-3 big bumps. Bigger than pimples. Other times they look like pimples, but there is more. Idk... I'd it herpes? I get them on my lips, but idk...
Painful but pleasurable, is it normal?
Relationship Stress / by Yourenotalone123
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May 3rd, 2016
...See more Okay, so I had sex with my best friend. Probably the worst mistake ever. But I did, and it hurt but, the pain felt good. Is that normal? I find it weird. I know to the guy, going hard is like...heaven to them. But I find it weird that (I'm a girl BTW) I found pleasure in that hard painful feeling. Is there something wrong with me? Or is that normal?
What is this??
Disability Support / by Yourenotalone123
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April 19th, 2016
...See more Ive been dealing with vaginal and back pain for over a year and a half now, i got checked and xrays done several times, but they didnt tell me anything was wrong.. And i am still having these pains. It feels like ive been socked in the vagina, and it aches like crazy. Idk what is wrong? Is it serious?
Sex addiction?
Relationship Stress / by Yourenotalone123
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May 14th, 2018
...See more What is it like to have a sex addiction? Is it like a porn addicrion? What is an addiction? "." when i hear the word addiction i feel like its something hard to get rid of? But sex is something that people have, a lot (maybe?) how can it be an addiction? And porn..i can see how it can also be an addiction. Someone told me that porn isnt bad, so is it bad if you become addicted to it? Or cant stop watching it for certain reasons? I dont understand a lot of this stuff. Someone shed some light on this please?
How do you know when youre ready?
Relationship Stress / by Yourenotalone123
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May 8th, 2016
...See more Hey, im Yolene, and im just strugglin with sex. Ive wanted to try it for a while now, but i dont know how to be ready, i mean..i feel ready? How bad can it be? Is it painful? It looks pleasurable..i dont know.
Masturbation
Relationship Stress / by Yourenotalone123
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April 7th, 2018
...See more Not a lot of people talk about this topic, i've noticed. My name is Yolene, and I'm 15, F. I have a problem with masturbation. I was exposed to porn in 6th grade, and i just liked watching it. I didnt masturbate to it, and it didnt make me feel any type of way, it was just something i found interest in. In 8th grade, i was introduced to masturbation by some friends. I tried it, but didnt get much from it. So i talked to my best friend about it. She told me to watch porn while doing it, that it will change everything. And, i did, and it DID change how it felt to masturbate. I orgasmed, and i didnt even know what an orgasm was until 9th grade, i just knew that i felt something great after masturbatiion. And...now I'm kinda regretting ever knowing about it, and porn too. I hate watching porn now, because its wrong. And i try to masturbate without porn, and i dont feel a thing. I sometimes think that i ruined everything for myself.. I dont know how to fix this. I tried to not masturbate at all, but then i get horny out of nowhere, and i cant have sex (I'm a virgin, and dont have that significant other) and cant help it but to masturbate, then i get frustrated because i dont feel anything and then i end up watching porn. Whats wrong with me!? Can someone help me please? Any tips? And, is masturbation healthy?
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