Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

My fear of sex.

Reeva527 June 26th, 2015

So even tho I have a very active lebito, I feel disgust when I think or hear about other people having sex.Even tho I have intimacy issues, I don't feel that way when I'm doing it. I'm just tired of the disgust coming and going and driving me crazy. I had a very conservative christian upbringing, but I don't think that's entirely it; somtimes I feel asexual, or like I was molested as a child, but I don't believe I was.

Fyi I'm male, bi, genderfluid, not religious anymore.

6
SoulCallix June 27th, 2015

Hi! Im pan, demiboy, boderline religious (i am from a very christian household) any ways. It sounds like your asexual! But there are diferent types of asexuals! So like you could range anywhere on the asexual scale. But to me your probably and asexual biromantic! Idk if that helped

3 replies
Reeva527 OP June 27th, 2015

Anasexual biromantic???

If i was truly asexual, I wouldn't be thinking about having and wanting to have sex so often. I get visually stimulated by stuff.

2 replies
goldenPerson9011 July 18th, 2015

I'm sorry if this is intrusive but you can be visually stimulated by things like porn and still be asexual. However if in real life you see someone and feel sexual attraction then you are not asexual. It honestly sounds like you might just be sex-repulsed if you are finding things such as discussions or mentions of people having sex gross.

1 reply
Reeva527 OP July 22nd, 2015

Interesting...thank you.

Though it doesn't make sense that I can be stimulated yet asexual.

load more
load more
load more
BessyB July 9th, 2015

Maybe you don't feel comfortable or you are not interested in talking about sex among others, and you just want to do what you please with your partner. nothing wrong.

1 reply
Reeva527 OP July 18th, 2015

...what?

load more