@gymnast9460 It is largely based on individual experience and the skill of the participants (if any). Each would have their own stories to tell about it. Some very positive, some negative, and some well rather short and pointless. It also depends on your gender and your willingness to engage in it at the time as well as your partner's willingness too. While some scientists can map out what precise areas of the brain actually get activated during the time, we still have our own private reactions to the parts of our brains being activated, if that makes sense? I think also someone having a fetish or some other point (such as emotions, fear, or thrill at the time) about it also makes a deep impact on sex too. So it is one of those special experiences that 2 or more people can share that can be very very unique and individual. I hope this answer "was good for you as it was for me". Hehehehe sorry couldn't resist the pun. (yes, that is also an epic fear too, to disappoint your parnter as if you didn't make them feel good which can happen). Any other description that wasn't ummm pg 13 rated I don't think could be described here without censorship sorry.
@gymnast9460
save up money and go to las vegas. i hear that prostitution is legal there, and so you can get first hand experience.
depending on where you live, do a google search or something to find the nearet facility or area where proatitution isn't illegal.
@redCanine3669
i've not had sex before, so this is all i can offer in terms of explanation and references, my friend. sex has not been my interest much lately; not as much as sexual expression anyways.
@redCanine3669
I understand. I am in the same boat
I want to feel safe emotionally and physically before i expience it.
@selfconfidentTangerine1778
I survived an attempted rape.
@gymnast9460 same but I'm scared . I feel like sex is something that can be a big commitment.atleast to me it is.
@11waffles
yes, sex is a big commitment for me. i'd either have to save money and go to Las Vegas, or get the sex in some other legal fashion that would be exhaustive and tedious. then there are STDs that easily dissuade my interest. then there's finding the person with the right gender identity, because i'm picky about that. the beautifulest woman could have a sausage in her pants; and though other men might not mind that sausage, i do mind it. or the beautifulest woman could be a lesbian, and so sex with her could be a fantasy for me but a nightmare for her, and i don't like unrequitted sex.
this is just the tip of the iceberg, in my adventure of finding a woman to have sex with. so yeah, i prefer sexual expressions rather than sex.
