Is being single bad
@gymnast9460
Is it a bad thing? Not really.
Is not being single (i.e. in a relationship) a good thing? Not necessarily.
There is no right or wrong answer here. Some people need to be alone with themsleves, work things out before they get with someone.
Some people find their partners early and stick with them, grown with them.
Some get into and out of relationships every other day.
You probably won't be single forever. That's a highly unlikely scenario. Although the more (negative) attention you give it, the more it'll bother you. Usually, not stressing about a particular thing, just be cool and do your thing, then things will happen to/for you. When you're relaxed its easier to be with people, you aren't so self conscious and your potential partner will pick up on that.
"hey i am single i am scared i will be single the rest of my life"
if you fear it, then work your way into a relationship.
i'm single. i've been single since birth. i do't have a fear of being single as much as i have a fear of never having sex. but both fears aren't too scary for me at the moment because i feel that, at this point in my life, i don't need a girlfriend or sex; especially if working towards those can result in my legal endangerment and destruction. not worth it. instead of sex, i just look at photos of models and listen to music. instead of girlfriend, i just use my imagination.
@redCanine3669 thank you
@gymnast9460
no problem, my friend. i like making friends with people who respect my sexual personality. and if sex and relationships require me to befriend people who don't respect my sexual personality and identity, then nothing good could come from chasing those sex and women, eh? both legally and emotionally, it's not a healthy decision for me, at the moment. sexual dudes, like me, have to be careful in societies that might not respect or accept us for who we are.
Being single is not a bad thing. Being with someone is not a bad thing. Just the way you look at it. They are actually awesome in their own way. But do not worry about being single, although easier said than done. I believe you should experience both for sometime because there is much to learn from both paths. But if you are not ready, dont want to, or have not met someone that feels right, than let it be. God has a plan. Hope this helps !
@gymnast9460 What exactly is your fear? I mean yes just because you are single NOW does not apply to the rest of your life. Unless you only have moments to live, in that case then yes I would be scared of that reality. However, lets be fair to you and say you still are alive and nothing is taking you down yet. There is still plenty of time to change and find a better way to connect to others and be in a wonderful relationship with someone who can and will care about you. Otherwise, your fear will become a very sad reality. Hmm, sounds like to me you have been visited by the ghost of Christmas future or something. However, as Teddy Roosevelt said "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself!".
