First Time??
I?mcuriousastowhatageothersbegantohavethoughtsofBDSMandwhattheydidifanythingtoactonthem?
Duringmyteenyearstherebeganafantasyinmymindofbeingtiedupanddisciplinedinsomeembarrassingmannerusuallybyafemale.Ididn?tevenknowwhatBDSMwas.Neveroncewasitactedonexceptinmyhead.Thatwasnotcontemplatedbecauseitseemedimpossibletohaveapartnertoevenspeakofsuchathing.Thenonedayafewofusguysintheneighborhoodwerehangingatatthisolderboyshomewhoseparentswerenothome.Hehadapairoftoy,yetstrongplastichandcuffsandtriedtoputthemonsomeofus.Iresistedonlyslightlytoactliketheothersguys.MyhandswerecuffedbehindmybackandasIstoodthereitwassuggestedtohavetheolderguysyoungsistercomeinandwatchwhiletheypulledmypantsoff.Thistheydidasmymindwasrushing.Thiswasrightalongthelineofmyfantasies.
TrueBDSMusuallyinvolvesconsentbetweenpartiesanda?safe?word.Myconsenttotheabovewasbynotfightingorscreamingbutinsteadsubmitting.Ididn?tneedasafewordbeingsuretheywouldreleasemeshortly.Myfirstrealexperienceoneononecameyearslaterbuttheabovetypethingsufficednowandthen.
Anythoughtsplease.
I had a love for it since I was about 12,
however, aside from looking up erotica, I didn't act on any of it until I was 18.
Only with my current boyfriend have I done anything with someone else, and we both spent plenty of time talking it out, and we always make sure we are both okay with everything related to it.
I've always enjoyed the thought of having someone as a submissive. My wife and I practice some lighter forms as she has a major kink for being mind controlled. My boyfriend and I have done roleplay dubcon before and my girlfriend and I have done a mix of dubcon roleplay and master/servant.
I first started researching and really looking into it probably around 18.
No way. Other people are into mindcontrol?
My wife loves it. And I do too, as far as being the one in control.