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Being used and reused

User Profile: GirlsNeedGirls
GirlsNeedGirls July 1st, 2015

I am someone that gets attatchedreality easily, it takes just a little bit of romance and i like you already, this guy not long ago , i really liked him and broke up with my boyfriend just for him. You know what happened ? the guy I really liked admitted that all he wanted was a hookup and there i go again... being used . How can I know if all the guy wants is sex ?

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User Profile: Itsacrazylifewelive
Itsacrazylifewelive July 9th, 2015

Unfortunately, you can't just look at someone and see their true intentions all the times. Some people are obvious, while others are not so much. You kind of have to wait before making huge decision and hope that the guy tells you his true intents concerning you.

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User Profile: Lee
Lee July 13th, 2015

@itsacrazylifewelive

Agreed, if only it was easier to know.

@GirlsNeedGirls - I find that the best way to know someone's intentions is to be straight up yourself. For example "Hey, I just want to be straight up with you, I'm looking for X, and if you aren't, I'd like you to be straight up with me." Communication can be sexy!

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User Profile: Itsacrazylifewelive
Itsacrazylifewelive July 13th, 2015

Communication is key like @leeleegrand said! Plus it is very sexy at times.

User Profile: Leri85
Leri85 July 13th, 2015

You can be straight up, that doesn't mean the other person will be honest with you

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