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No relationship for many years

Israelfernando September 25th, 2021

I find it hard to talk to a female or be in a relationship is been a long years now I don't know how to have one. Now am desperate to have a friend that we lead to a relationship but don't know how to start one or whom to talk to.

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QuietMagic September 27th, 2021

@Israelfernando

Hi--here are a couple resources I was able to find that have some tips for how to find a person that you might be interested in dating.
https://www.datingadvice.com/for-men/how-to-find-a-date
https://www.huffpost.com/entry/how-to-find-a-date-irl_n_559e8135e4b05b1d028fbe23

Personally for myself, I've found that most of the people I've been romantically involved with are people that I met and became friends with through shared activities/interests. Then just as a result of being around them a lot and having that activity in common, we might start connecting in other ways (e.g. we talk about other things, I notice that they have a really great personality, etc.)

Here are a couple resources I found that have some tips for how to transition from a friendship to a relationship, in the event that you find someone who you are friendly with and might be interested in dating.
https://www.brides.com/how-to-go-from-friends-to-dating-5105333
https://www.wikihow.com/Go-from-Friends-to-Dating

Israelfernando OP September 28th, 2021

Resources is good for a start

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QuietMagic September 28th, 2021

@Israelfernando

Also if you're looking for someone to talk to, the most reliable way to find a good listener is to use the "Browse Listeners" page and check the box for "Verified Listeners". HERE is a link to verified listeners who accept chats on relationship issues.

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