Me or it..
Hello,
So my fiance and I have been together for almost 3 years, he has been with me through a 18 months of me being in prison, now he cheated on me quiet a few times and an addiction. I have been home 3 months and our sex life is so dead, and it's not like he can't get it up, however he claims his addiction is the cause of his lack of sexual desire, yet he was fine a few weeks ago, he was wanting a threesome and all, well it's been two weeks and we have had sex maybe once, anytime I bring it up it causes an argument and then he won't even try although he says he is going to. Like it's really getting to me, like I feel like he is trying to play me and meet up with someone else on the side. I mean he don't ever give it to me and he says he loves me and it's just his desire for sex is gone cause of his drug use . Does anyone have any advice??
@CFoxReed
I'm sorry to see that you're both going through a difficult time. It looks like you're still concerned that he is cheating on you, that he isn't having sex with you because he is sleeping with someone else. This could be a possibility as he has cheated on you before, but it could also be related to drug use too, or both.
If you want a loyal and monogamous relationship, and he is still cheating on you, then it's important to recognise that he is no longer respecting the boundaries or the relationship or what you want from the relationship. That's when it's good to reflect on whether you're happy to continue such a relationship or if it's time to move on.
I wish you all the best with this situation.
