Friends for now

My partner and I had a nasty argument a couple of weeks back then he told me that we should just be friends for now. When I asked him if this is a break he said no, he just said he wanted us to have a no label relationship and maintain as friends. He said he'll always be there for me but I feel the other way around, he would get cold one time and then sweet the other time. When I asked him our status he would always say 'not today' i am so confused and my anxiety cannot take the limbo where i am in. i dont know who am I in our relationship, am I still with him or am I just a friend. I dont have clarity because he wont give it to me.