False Hopes

Hi @Peanuttbater

You sounds frustrated and the situation does sounds confusing. What's his excuse, anyway?

Lots of excuses like still pandemic, or that im rushing, the church is still under construction. Anything that seems valid to him. Everyone is moving on except him. I dont believe to his reasons anymore. Yes I am frustrated, because he keep on making promises. Felt like he just want to make me fall into trap and leave me behind. I know I shouldn’t rush things. But hey he shouldn’t say things he cant be sure about from the first place. Im heart broken but im trying to fix and heal myself because noone will help em except me. 😢

@Peanuttbater
You're right, he shouldn't have said something that important when he's still unsure.
What do you think it the fear he may have about marriage?

I dont know, he’s full of himself all he cares is his well-being. Seems like he just want to play around make himself like a better and responsible man but in reality he is way too low to the responsible man I know. Recently my friend got engaged, and tbh it frustrates me even more. Like, damn all my friends are getting married while me stucked here in the corner waiting for the unsure man.