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Blocked on everything - Christmas dilemma

IntrovertedOldSoul December 21st, 2020

HI community members. I am in a dilemma and not sure what actions to take. Just wondering if any community members have experiences, examples or ideas surrounding the issue.

Me and my significant other were doing really well after a period of breaking up, things were going great between us then I get a message: "I'm sorry don't contact me ever again, respect my wshes" I am generalising to protect privicy but thats generaly what happened.I have a couple of dilemmas:

First they are aware I have got christmas gifts for them and their family and its christmas this week.

I am a respectful person but im in the dilemma of dropping over the gifts, I am blocked on everything so contact is not possible.

Also I am finding it difficult regarding the respect aspect. I understand everyones morals and ethics differ. Mine consist of if the roles were reveresed I would not block them if i was the one breaking up, especially before christmas, and if i made the decision to end contact i would atleast respect that they want to know why and have a right to know why, as its not fair on their mental health to do something like this.

Do I have the right to reach out and ask for a discussion regarding the decision? not knowing is very hurtful. What do i do about the gifts too?

Thanks in advance community members. Merry Christmas to you all.

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