Why won’t he just apologize?
My boyfriend went to smack my butt but my reflexes made my hand go back there to block the hit and he hit me really hard. He hit me so hard that my finger is sprained and it hurts to bend. All he did was laugh and say it was my fault because he always does it it. But I keep telling him not to smack me hard but he continues to do it. He got mad at me because I was mad at him and wouldn’t talk to him( because he really persistant on it’s my fault and didn’t apologize) and he invalidated me and instead of asking if I was ok he continued to blame it on me. we haven’t talked the rest of the night or the rest of today.
@persistentJar149
By apologizing it would be him admitting he is in the wrong and he might have to examine why he continues to smack your butt and why so hard ....
opening up to the fact may open up that his acts are perhaps is NOT the simple funny thing he thinks it is...and perhaps makes his look like a jerk or worse an abuser.
@persistentJar149 Are you his toy or a precious gem? He is treating you like his toy. He seriously seriously needs to grow the f up!
