Sick and Tired

Are all men ridiculous when their spouse gets sick. Mine was home all day watching tv while I went to work sick as anything (no sick days at work) and I came home to a sink full of his dishes, and a full dishwasher that needed to be unloaded. I asked how he was and he said “I am borderline sick” I said oh what symptoms do you have, as I stated my cold with a really bad sore throat. He responded “well nothing yet but I am on the edge of being sick” I felt that was dramatic.

I am not someone who whines or complains, I don’t ask anyone to do anything or make me anything. If I want soup for example I will go and do it myself. My boyfriend never asks if I want or need anything.

At the end of the day I was heading to bed and was saying goodnight and I said how much I wanted to give him a kiss (trying to keep distance so he doesn’t get it) he goes your so annoying. I was confused at how I was being annoying. He told me I am such a *** when I am sick and it’s annoying, that if I am going to be sick then to do it away from him.

I am hurt by his words. I do everything around the house , in sickness or health I don’t complain. I didn’t even know how to respond I just walked away.