im experiencing the same thing as a 18y old female, its been really hard 4 me, he changed a lot as a person and he cannot meet my needs anymore, and i dont need a lot believe me, i just need quality time even if its little, but he has no time for me n i know he could make some, like they say: if he wanted to he would. Im planning on breaking up tomorrow, ive been preparing for like 2 weeks now mentally but i do not feel ready. I love him more than myself literally, but i need to give muself a chance as well to find someone who treats me betta, at the end of the day, its me myself and I so i need to ve a priority 4 myself:) Hope how i see it helps u understand ur situation more. Ion think u should settle w an open realtionship. If she eanter to she would, dont settle for less, be true w urself and treat urself w findig a good person 4 u. Sorry for typos its my 2nd language