Long distance relationship
Hi,
I’ve been in a long-distance relationship for almost a year. He is a great person, but lately, he’s been busy with his schedule, which I understand, so he can’t give me enough time. I have to keep reminding him to call or spend time with me, and I’m fed up with it. Our time zone has almost a 7-hour difference, and I’ve been trying to catch up with him, but I don’t feel like he’s doing the same. It seems he has his limits when it comes to loving me in the ways I want and need. I feel like this relationship is one-sided. I’m struggling with feeling unimportant and I have no idea if he truly sees how hard I’m trying.
@PurrfectMeow
This sounds tough. Long distance relationships can be hard to navigate. Do you have any plans for the future. Ie. Holiday coming up or has it always been a LDR?
When we started our relationship, it was already long distance. We had planned to meet up this coming July, but I feel like that plan is fading now. He doesn’t put in much effort to make me feel appreciated. I’m always the one initiating phone calls. He told me he’s lost in thought, but I don’t know what he’s thinking because he never shares it with me.
Girl same things going in my case . I did struggle lot
Now we don't contact each other
I’m so scared to let him go but too hurt to hold him back. I don’t know why it’s happening to me. If I tell him I just can’t do it anymore, I’m afraid he might let go of me. Less conversation and late replies kill me. He’s never tired or busy for others but he always is for me and I can’t keep waiting for him like a fool.