Let it go
Most of the times we have a habit to hold on to things that was never meant to be. We find so comfort to feel the pain of holding on rather than letting go. I have been there. The relationship was so intense that I found comfort to hold on to the pain my partner gave me than letting him go . The more I hold on to that pain, the more I feel more comfortable. I kept on holding on to a point that all those feelings and thoughts decayed.
@lovelyPower9238
It sounds like you have given up something that meant a lot to you but caused you lots of pain and hurt. This is a difficult thing to do, I imagine there was lots of heartache. But yes, you are right, sometimes the best we can do is to let it go.
@lovelyPower9238
It isn't easy letting go, but may help to remember the hot vessel analogy!
When you first touch a hot vessel and realise it's hot, you don't keep touching it again and again, it'll remain hot still, gotta stop touching it to avoid getting burnt!
