Confused about my feelings
About 2 months ago I turned down a male coworker that asked me out. Ever since I feel like I’m regretting it and I can’t stop thinking about it. I don’t know if I am interested in him or if I just feel bad about it. He’s a really nice guy but he has depression, makes suicidal jokes at work, and doesn’t take care of himself. My head is telling me it’s a bad idea due to those reasons and we have nothing in common. However I feel like my heart is telling me something else. Is it empathy of something else I’m feeling. I’m very confused..
@Country3262
Only you know your feelings...
while it is understandable by what you have wrote why someone chose to say NO ... if he is a nice person and you feel you may have hurt his feelings it is empathy if it is maybe you are curious of who he is outside of work it is curiosity ......... what is wrong with asking him out or maybe a group outing to see if you are missing something about him.
