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idkineedtotalk August 31st, 2023

I’m really struggling with my self confidence like more than ever. I think it’s really effecting my relationship with my boyfriend and I’m afraid he’s getting really sick of it. He says I’m never happy and always complaining about something. Im afraid I’m depressed and I don’t know what to do about it. My boyfriend said maybe we should move out and live separately because maybe we need space. I don’t want to do that at all. I don’t want to be alone I want to figure things out together but we’ve been trying for a year and it’s been rocky. I don’t want him to leave me

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KatePersephone September 1st, 2023

@idkineedtotalk hello there. i am kate, and it is nice to meet you.
first of all, thank you for opening up about what's going on in your life and your relationship at the moment, it is really brave of you and i am proud of you for doing that!

secondly, it sounds like you are dealing with self-esteem issues, which indeed makes it very difficult for both you, and your partner. i can definitely see how it is upsetting him, but i know how much he means to you, and that you don't want to lose him. how do you think you can best handle the situation at the moment?