Being replaced
We were almost “perfect” for each other in every way. From our history, interests, mindset and way of living—everything seemed to be in sync. But I left him because he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship since his previous one was traumatic. It’s been months now and.. he’s got a new partner. I don’t know how to cope.
@notthere
So you left him feeling he was not ready and then he moved on and is in a relationship.
I understand how that could be frustrating but in the end he felt he was ready.... are you upset that he was ready with some one else?
I think when we make decisions even with then best intentions and if they are wrong or not as we expected, reflect on why it is hard to move on or cope with.... maybe it is for the best and you will be proven right and his relationship will not last ... but in the end his relationships good or bad are no longer your concern.