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PathStep 4 Compassion hearts146 Forum posts49 Forum upvotes50 Current upvotes50 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2024 Member sinceNovember 27, 2019
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Relationship Stress / by notthere
Last post
 September 22nd
...See more We were almost “perfect” for each other in every way. From our history, interests, mindset and way of living—everything seemed to be in sync. But I left him because he wasn’t ready for a serious relationship since his previous one was traumatic. It’s been months now and.. he’s got a new partner. I don’t know how to cope.
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Disability Support / by notthere
Last post
 April 2nd, 2022
...See more Hi, I’m here to find some people I can talk to about my experiences with epilepsy. I couldn’t find a community in my own city or even online. I was diagnosed 6 years ago with generalised tonic-clonic seizures, but had my first seizure 12 hours after I was born. Hope I can meet others here. I sometimes feel a bit outcasted or misunderstood by the people around me, since I’m the only person they know with epilepsy
Constantly feeling nervous
Anxiety Support / by notthere
Last post
 April 6th, 2021
...See more For the past months I’ve constantly been feeling nervous. I would call it anxious but, i feel like you have to be diagnosed before saying you have anxiety? I can’t sleep. I’ve tried sleeping pills but it still takes me up to 4 hours to fall asleep. I can’t seem to calm my thoughts down. When it’s quiet they just start spiralling down and my heart would palpitate and I’d feel like someone’s punching my gut. I’m doing this programme with a therapist that’s supposed to help with anxiety, but I feel like the ABCD steps can’t be applied to me. I can’t control my thoughts. Does anyone have or has anyone had this problem?
How long should you wait before contacting your ex if you were the one who broke things off?
Relationship Stress / by notthere
Last post
 March 19th, 2020
...See more We'd been fighting for a week with seemingly no conclusion and it felt like he was no longer trying to help me find a solution to our problems. After a series of unanswered texts, I called him, angrily. I said I didn't wanna do this anymore and he hung up on me. I blocked him since. I still love him, but the relationship was toxic. I feel like a weight has been lifted. But the silence is deafening. What if he just doesn't care anymore? What if he realises he doesn't love me? It's been 5 days. He sent me a voicemail 3 days ago saying, "I just wanted to ask if you received my message. I love you." I don't know whether to reply or to leave things as they are. I know we didn't get closure, but talking to him again would be like rubbing salt into a wound.
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