i brought it up

I talked to the guy im seeing, or whatever you want to call him; friends with benefits, about what had happened with the other girl, how he doesn't mention her to me nor me to her. He went quite so now im not sure what to do. Space doesn't seem to go well for us just due to the fact that this all happened while we were taking some space. I dont know, its just a really weird, awkward situation and where I use to be able to be straight forward with guys about this kind of stuff I just can't anymore.

And the strange thing is whenever he gets upset with me he get upset over me not giving him blow jobs. Like thats his only issue with me is that I wont give him a blow job. To me thats just a weird thing to get upset over. He doesnt get upset when im jealous or paranoid or mad at him. Or at least if he does thats the only thing he brings up is bjs and how i dont give them to him.