i brought it up
I talked to the guy im seeing, or whatever you want to call him; friends with benefits, about what had happened with the other girl, how he doesn't mention her to me nor me to her. He went quite so now im not sure what to do. Space doesn't seem to go well for us just due to the fact that this all happened while we were taking some space. I dont know, its just a really weird, awkward situation and where I use to be able to be straight forward with guys about this kind of stuff I just can't anymore.
And the strange thing is whenever he gets upset with me he get upset over me not giving him blow jobs. Like thats his only issue with me is that I wont give him a blow job. To me thats just a weird thing to get upset over. He doesnt get upset when im jealous or paranoid or mad at him. Or at least if he does thats the only thing he brings up is bjs and how i dont give them to him.
@Julietlovesu415 Hello Julie, Seems like you struggling in this relationship. I could understand how hard it could be for you experiencing and coping with such situation. How about communicating with him on this clearly and try to make him understand about your thoughts?
And as I see you share with us in December, so I hope currently things could be going better for them and you. In case, you have any thoughts or would like to discuss more about it, feel free to connect with us here or in 1-1 with lovely listeners to get better support. We all are here with you. Hugs <3
@ASilentObserver I ended up breaking it off due to lack of communication. He hasnt once tried to contact me or see me after blocking him so I can only assume he didnt really care.
Some days I miss him but then I remeber how hard it was and it makes it easier.
