Improving Communication
Hey there.
What are some ways to make sure your point gets across very clearly, calmly, succinctly? Today, in trying to clarify a misunderstanding, another happened. My classmate hasn't responded to my attempt to clarify the clarification. It sounds redundant and unnecessary because it is. He decided I'm wrong because he didn't see we actually agreed on the topic. I did use a sentence that I only realized was rude & taken as non-apology after he repeated it to me snarkily. It wasn't my intention (because I really didn't know if I upset him) but he snapped. He said he wasn't upset in the same response. I'm baffled by this, was it sarcasm? A pride thing? I'd apologize but he doesn't seem interested so I'll let it go for now.
I definitely could've used better words and sentences. How do I manage my own assumptions and ensure a misunderstanding like this doesn't happen again with anyone else?
@Lexloveslife
Lifelong learning is a huge part of life. Recognizing your circumstance means that you've learned from past experiences. I'm very proud of you either way.
Sometimes some people may summarize concepts in bullet points, and other times some people may state to the person their fears directly as you shared here with us.
However, as you mentioned, you did the best that you could do. Sometimes, the other person isn't always nice. It's hard to tell, but maybe think it out some more.
Wishing you the best of luck.
