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I'm kinda confused PLEASE GIVE YOUR ADVICE

NezukoChan447 July 8th, 2021

Ok so, about an year ago a guy confessed his feelings to me and claimed the he's been into me for about 1 year but I friend zoned him. Everything was perfect, we use to chat together, play video games, flirt a bit, he even helped me with my depression. And soon after few months he moved on. BUT NOW, I've developed feelings for him and he's gonna leave the state in 1 month and we can't meet due to covid. I'm totally fine with rejected, being friend zoned or long distance relationship cuz i just want to let him know how I feel. But I'm afraid that if i confess my feelings to him and he accepts me then after a certain amount of time he'll feel like he's stuck with me. And if he rejects me, he'll probably think of me even before starting a new crush. BECAUSE, when he'll move he'll meet new girls and have a totally different environment, and probably he wants to leave everything behind and start new. I'm just afraid if I'll be holding him back. Should I let him know how I feel or not? PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR ADVICE.

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Optimisticempath July 9th, 2021

@NezukoChan447
That sounds like a complicated situation to be in , can understand why you'd seek for advise .
If you don't share your feelings would you be able to move past ? Probably you'll keep thinking about how you should've told him . It is difficult to express our feelings but as you mentioned you're okay with all turn outs , you just want to share how you feel , then maybe it is a good idea to share ?
You could just tell him that it is important for you to share how you felt , you have no intentions of holding him back and he's free to do what he wishes but you just wanted to tell him so he knows he's made his impact too and you do care for him.
Maybe things don't seem to be working out now , but we won't know if we don't try , and communication is a great first step . Good luck , I hope whatever you decide is good for you ❤