I can't admit that she betrayed me
Hi:
For the past week, I have been very angry and hurt about how I was treated by a "Friend." The last time we reconnected, she completely ignored a very serious situation that I had been facing. Rather, she was more concerned about hearing herself talk and didn't like what I had to say. Additionally to that, she completely disappeared from me for a year and a half. As stated in my last post, she told me that she "Forgot" about my situation and that her problems seemed to be more important. She also tried to cover things up by stating that she "Lost her phone."
Anyway, I am having a hard time accepting that this woman betrayed me by disappearing like that. I think the main reason is because I thought that she was my friend.
@Summershy
Friends make bad decisions too .....I would think you would have felt better if she told you the truth... that she got caught up with her issues and problems and frankly either forgot about you and yours ... we all do that sometimes I fell into a depression and quit walking with a group of friends .... I am sad as one moved away when i was in my funk .... I cannot get back that time or say goodbye properly.
our lives go on at the same time it is not like you have issues and once they clear up the other person gets to have them.
she let you down how you take it is up to you .... I would honestly be mad about how she tried to cover up for it rather then the original ignore.
No what makes you say that?
@Summershy
we only get a small look at the situation you are in it ... i am just saying in similar cases i would like people to be upfront ...
say "hey i had other things going on and just did not connect"... the" i lost my phone" of other excuses say they may feel the person they ignored can not just accept that occasionally this happens or there had to be a outside excuse.
The reason I feel that she betrayed me is because we got in touch and then got together. This happened to be a week after facing this emergency that could have been life threatening. I had even told her about it over the phone along with her seeing that mess. However, she ignored it.
Then during the get together, she was incredibly rude and wanted to be the center of attention
- When I was trying to talk, she cut me off and then started dominating the conversation
- She also started sulking and avoiding me because she didn’t seem to like what I had to say
- She also bragged about her two adult children
- I also feel like all she wanted to do was show off
-Her health club and then her some work that she did in her Front
Then after that, she disappeared for an entire year and a half.
When I called her out, she said that she was sorry for forgetting about my situation and said “I hope the situation is better now right?” I did not feel like telling her. That is also when she made the excuse about the phone ,
Her other excuse, “I guess I have been a little too focused on my problems lately. However, at no point have I considered myself to be a self centered person and I have always been a good listener.
Actually, no she has not.
