How can she be so forgiving towards me after the way I've treated her?
There's this girl that I met at college. I mainly got talking to her in my second year after I messaged her on Facebook asking something about her higher up course, we got talking, and after that she'd message me frequently checking how I was and things.
We got closer really and it was obvious she liked me, and it got to a point where I bumped into her one day at college, and I had mixed feelings towards her whether I liked her more than friends or not. Some days I would be, others not really. And then we drifted slightly. Conversation on Facebook never went anywhere and so I'd end up forgetting to reply to her. And then I met a girl who I got into a relationship with, and I upset the girl from college, she deleted me on Facebook. I noticed straight away and asked her what was going on and she added me back blaming facebook.
That relationship didn't last too well, and somehow we got talking again in September for a few months again, and I did the same as before, we drifted and I got into a relationship with a girl I met at university in November. We're still together now but I messaged the girl from college about a month ago telling her I'm an idiot for just ditching her again, and she welcomed me with open arms saying she could never be mad at me.
And then just lately my girlfriend has been so distant from me, like she can't be bothered talking to me. And yet I talk to the girl from college who makes absolutely every effort to communicate with me regardless. And I got so upset with myself last night. My girlfriend couldn't be bothered with me and I said to the girl from college that I'm an idiot for taking her for granted and how she's always been the one who's been there for me no matter what. And yet she welcomes me with open arms despite the fact I've lead her on so many times accidentally and she still respects me. And it gets to me that she makes more of an effort these days than my own girlfriend even does..
Sounds like a she's a real keeper of a friend. It's great to have people who are so readily open to more positive vibes in life.
@Jlawson118
Wow, it really sounds as though that girl is a great person and a great friend to you. Maybe try keeping this in mind :)
Some people are very accepting and more open to people, regardless of the circumstances and you probably shouldn't let that someone go :)
@Jlawson118 Seems to me that even if you decide you are not interested in her in a romantic way, she would still make a really good friend to have. It's not often you meet someone who is so willing to forgive and welcome you back with open arms. It's good that you've realized this :)