Best friend problem
First off I want to say I'm glad I found this because I literally have no one to talk to, or listen, or trust. Well, I have a best friend , we've been friends for 3 years. Lately things have been starting to bug me. She always makes rude remarks and bringsbad vibes to many things. I'm always nervous while talking to her because she always does this thing where she treats me like I'm wrong all the time Or stupid. She always points out my pimplesor makes rude comments in front of a crowd. It makes me regret ever being her best friend. The reason why I continue to stay with her is because I have no friends. We always have days where we don't look at each other,ortalk to each other. Which is happening right now. She made a post saying "everyone is fake, even the ones close to you." I feel like it's referred to me. It's senior year and I've already lost like 3 friends. I just don't know what to do anymore. She never listens to me when I say I have bad anxiety or feel sucidal. All she does is agree. Or says "lmao". I really just don't know what's going on.
I definitely understand where you're coming from and have been put in the same position. It's hard because you don't want to feel alone but the company you're with is putting you down. Maybe she doesn't realise she's doing it but a true friend should never want to make you feel low about yourself.
Hey I'm in the same boat right nowSo me and this girl have been hanging out for a year and a half we weren't dating we were just good friends like we consider each other brother/sister and I was invited to her uncles house for New Years and we were up for awhile by ourselves we were cuddling because it was cold and without me
realizing it somehow my hand was onher butt I thought it was on her back so I started rubbing as if it were I soonrealized it was not her back but Ifigured she didn't stop me so whyshould I we stayed for 3 day everynight we cuddle and it happened again but I knew what was happening andonce we got home I noticed she wasn'ttalking to me as much so I wasmakingsure she was okay and thishappenedMe:Are you okay?
Her:Yeah
Me:Are you sure something dosent feel right
Her:No, but when I'm ready to talkabout it with you I will but not right now.
Me:But there is something that's all I wanted to know do you want meto leave you alone?
Her:I just need to figure some thingsout on my own...
Me:It's ok
Her:okay
Me:bye
Her:bye
Idk if she needs to think on what I did but I'm really hurt I truly love her like family I would die for her
Has anything happened yet, did you ask her about the situation of the rubbing thing
The last I heard was that she needs time to figure things out on her own