What he really means

“i dont want to get married right now”

-he dont see you as his potential life partner

”i want to get a good job first before settling down”

-hes giving you hopes so he can get you to trust him so he can string you along

”i love you. Its one of my goals to marry you”

-wheres the ring then?

“its not you, its me.”

-he doesnt like something about you, whether its physical or internal. Most of the time its a physical quality like weight or he doesnt find you attractive or is ashamed to bring you to his family

all in all if a truly wants you, he will tell his family and friends and say hes in a relationship with you and post pic or status about you. He will put a ring on it and make you his. He will not leave you in the dark or let you go. Dont let yourself get dragged just bc hes bored and lonely and needs an ego boost. Hes just trying to make you love him for emotional support and ego boost. In the end, youll be the one played and burned.

if youre the type to get attached by simple intimacy then do not get intimate till you know that hes sure about you. You gotta have dignity and value yourself.