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Too ugly to date

User Profile: Christv1378
Christv1378 October 1st, 2021

I feel like i am to ugly to be loved by anyone and i feel like that no one would want to date me I try to talk to other women but they don’t seem to really care and my past relationship made me feel like I was worthless because she dumped me because i was not hot enough for her and that she found some one that was way better looking than me . I really am ugly I guess

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User Profile: SoftFaith2004
SoftFaith2004 October 1st, 2021

You are not ugly you are amazing! You are very well to date, no one is ugly, if you are good inside❤️ I am supporting you, many are! Don't woryy~❤️

User Profile: Kay600
Kay600 October 1st, 2021

hey! Don’t put that out into the world!! Everyone deserves a chance but if you put negative things into the world, they’ll most likely occur. I’ve done this so many times and have learned so much from it. The universe brings you what you say and want, so instead of saying, “I feel to ugly,” maybe look in the mirror and say, “Heyyy, someone’s lookin fresh today!” It doesn’t just put out into the world that you look fresh, but it boosts your confidence too. An exercise that helps me a lot with my self confidence is looking in the mirror and saying three nice things about my physical features. Try it!

User Profile: PoisonCupcakes
PoisonCupcakes October 1st, 2021

@Christv1378 There are so many people in the world who are in happy relationships who aren't conventionally attractive. A lot of what's "ugly" and "beautiful" is just a matter of opinion and another part of it is factors within your control like proper grooming, stability, kindness, manners, and having more to offer than looks. There isn't a cutoff for how attractive a person has to be in order to be loved because otherwise only the top percentage of beautiful people would ever find love but that's just not the case.

That sounds really painful that your past partner used something so superficial as a reason to break up but you deserve better. It's important to remember that's just one person's opinion of you and there are so many other girls out there whose opinions will be just as varied as they are. You still have a lot of potential to find someone new who does see the beauty in you and wants to be with you. What's important is that you learn to see your own value and build upon it regardless of how hurtful other people can be.

User Profile: KristelP
KristelP October 1st, 2021

Never say like this! No one is ugly to have a couple. The true attractiveness is inside a good person. I'm sure if you tell yourself everyday that you're great, you'll feel like this. Sometimes, ppl just need time to discern the true grace of a person. Maybe your ex gf wasn't so into you. Maybe you're not confident enough after your previous relationships. But don't give up. There are many failures in our life before we find our true love. You can visit some of the dating sites, like mega personals, for example, to get some woman's attention, practice communication skills and thus train self-confidence. But always remember, you're a great person. Don't let anyone convince otherwise.