Sex
What do you do if your partner just isn’t as sexual as you? But you’re also not the sexual dominant type. You’re more of a submissive type but you don’t want it to be vanilla all the time. You want to try new things and spice things up and have more frequent sex. I’ve tried to introduce new things as best as I can but I need him to at least try and meet me halfway sometimes on changing things up
A healthy and balanced relationship is all about finding a compromise. And to find a compromise that will suit both sides, there has to be communication. Sex is a huge part of a relationship, and if you feel like you want more, want to experience new things, that's 100% appropriate. You and your partner don't need to have the same preferences in everything, the sexual connection can be created. Talk to your partner, tell him about your needs and be interested in his. If both of you are willing to dialogue, you will be able to find a solution!
That’s the problem. I do try to talk to him and he gets very uncomfortable and embarrassed almost. He also makes excuses. For example I say we should sleep naked and cuddle more so then maybe through the night or in the morning it comes more natural and he makes excuses as to why he doesn’t want to do that
I see. I wonder why he behaves this way, he needs to be clear with you. Is this his first relationship? Does he feel somehow insecure? Try to give him time and be understanding, he is sending confusing signals and this is a sign of something wrong, perhaps something that embarrasses him. Hope things can be resolved soon
We’re almost at our 3 year mark. He told me before it was because he felt insecure about his weight. He’s lost the weight now and still makes excuses. I don’t know how to keep going
Totally get it, I tried to get my wife to do *** or deep throat \swallow .. impossible
Any other ideas in the group
