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LDR success story plea

insecureldrdependent November 23rd, 2021

My bf and I will be in a LDR for 4+ years due to us both being military - in different branches. I'm simply begging for some long distance relationship success stories for hope. I love him but I'm very dependent on him as much as I try not to and I'm scared for our future. It will be extremely difficult but worth it if it all works out in the end. People try to comfort me saying it will all be better when we're together again but we have no idea when that will be.

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halcyonCloud2036 November 24th, 2021

@insecureldrdependent

I hear you...it seems like the time will never come when you are actually together, but it will come! If he is a good person, treats you well, and shares your same desire to be together eventually, it is worth the wait. It is hard to find good partners even when it is not a LDR lol. Try to patient and know that you have a great guy that you will be with in the future. For now, keep working on being the best you can be in achieving your goals, hopes and dreams. By doing the things that are important to you now, that will make your relationship even better when you are finally together :)

insecureldrdependent OP November 28th, 2021

As a lil update I'm not happy with your current long distance bc he's very forgetful and doesn't do things he promises he will and I always put in 110% into the relationship and if I bring it up he apologizes and say's he didn't realize and improves a bit but it's so hard to feel loved when his actions don't back up his claims of loving me