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insecureldrdependent
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PathStep 9 Compassion hearts10 Forum posts8 Forum upvotes9 Current upvotes9 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2021 Member sinceSeptember 30, 2021
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LDR success story plea
Relationship Stress / by insecureldrdependent
Last post
 November 28th, 2021
...See more My bf and I will be in a LDR for 4+ years due to us both being military - in different branches. I'm simply begging for some long distance relationship success stories for hope. I love him but I'm very dependent on him as much as I try not to and I'm scared for our future. It will be extremely difficult but worth it if it all works out in the end. People try to comfort me saying it will all be better when we're together again but we have no idea when that will be.
LDR: I'm not his first priority
Relationship Stress / by insecureldrdependent
Last post
 October 1st, 2021
...See more He is my first priority: I only have notifications on for him, when I check my phone the first thing I do is check any messages or posts from him, I stay up til 2am for the chance to get to talk to him with the time difference. I know he's busy with school and everything. He lives a very balanced life: enjoying his friends, family and me while doing his academics and any clubs or other obligations. If I haven't heard from him in a few hours I feel sick to my stomach, especially when I see he's been active on socials. I feel dejected because I'm always putting him first, but maybe I shouldn't be. Maybe I need a more balanced life. Maybe it's tired to my insecurity in the relationship and feeling like I need to hang on tight so he never finds someone better and leaves. I feel like a burden, sending so many messages throughout the day, but I can't stop myself. I want to hold off and see how much he would message me or reach out without me so actively talking to him but maybe I don't want to give him the chance to show me anything negative.
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