Boyfriend Stressed About Our First Apartment
Hi
My boyfriend and I got accepted for an apartment today. I'm 23 and he's 22. We've been looking for somewhere for about 2 months. Now we have somewhere secured he is stressing out. He says it is the most stressed out he's been in his life. I want this apartment, I looked for an apartment because my parents are planning on moving to a different state within a year so I thought the sooner the better rather than leave it to the last minute. I can afford this place on my own. He wants to contribute but he is not working a great job right now and has not finished college. He says now he has to frantically apply to anything near our new apartment to get a job even if he doesn't like it. This apartment is about a 45 minute drive to his work. Will be a 25 minute drive to mine. We talked about this and he said he'd be okay with it. Now he is saying he wants to find a new job closer asap. I love him very much but he is stressing me out by being stressed!! I have practically told him he can live here for free but he is still unhappy. Any advice?