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A question that recently popped up in my head
244 January 5th, 2022
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Why do people who don't want a love life have one and the people who do want one can't seem to have one? People are in relationships who have no care in the world for the other person and then there are people with so much love to give and no one to give it to. Why do you think it's that way?

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Daydreamer47 January 6th, 2022
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@244 hmm it is a hard thing definitely and very hard to see other people have something that you want and don't have. All I can say is for myself, it took just continuing to take steps to put myself out there, meet new people, and communicate for a good connection to come together. I had two breakups this year plus many awkward zoom and "socially distant" dates before settling on a better connection with someone I met through a meetup.

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