Am I Ugly or Annoying
Okay! So I am not trying to be a pick me girl or anything. I am just confused/concerned. I am 27 and have not only never been on a date, I have never been the object of someone’s attraction/affection. I connect with people really well and have had a ton of guys who people say “emotional dated” me (which is bizarre but anyway lol) but no one has ever expressed interest or made a move.
I swear this guy and I were in love for almost a year before my “best friend” stepped in and told him to stop talking to me unless he was willing to make a move. They are expecting their first child now. Lol
I don’t feel like I am super unattractive or anything, and I know people like being around me because I have had several guy friends who have called me for hours on end just to talk for the last 14 years. I am just so confused as to what I am doing that is preventing anyone from seeing me as more than a friend!
@Xloe I feel you as I have similar issue but for many years now.
It was suggested that I have an attachment disorder and when I looked it up I feel I fit into the anxious type.
Just an idea but thought you may want to check it out as it took me years of therapy to be told this.
Wishing you well, may you find a mutual deeper connection
Hey!, I really understand your plight and it does happen to people especially people who are socially active. the good thing is you definitely see mutual connections..If you would like to know chat with me further you can reach me on IG: @to_designlab