The matchmaker
Hello people, I have a quick question. One of my BEST friends (I ♥️ her! 🤗) is trying to set me up (matchmaker) with her best guy friend (Im not close with him). I actually always thought he was very attractive, but the closeness of their friendship kind of seems weird(she has a key to his apartment, they always hang out and talk everyday, you know like you would with a girlfriend). If I was to date her best male friend then I would be weary if deep down one of them had feelings for each other that they might address down the line. I just dont want to ruin my friendship with her just In case she may not be aware of feelings for him deep inside she doesnt want to address today. I just dont want to be cheated on or lose a great best friend down the line lol. She says she doesnt have any feelings for him but ehhh I dont think males and females can be so close without ONE of them having some romantic feelings deep down inside. What do you guys think?
@PlasticWings
I think if their current level of friendship makes you uncomfortable within the context of potentially dating that guy, then you might be right to avoid this particular 'match making' :)
@0m Thank you for your advice I really appreciate it! I did end up asking her (in a goofy way because Im a silly goose 😜) details about their friendship and he did actually ask her out, but she declined and remained friends with him. This was pretty recent so I guess my intuition was right and so were you! Lol. I knew atleast one of them had feelings for the other, but Im glad I never expressed interest for him to her or him so it all works out and makes sense in the end. I only feel sorry for the guy, because after being rejected by her she is trying to set him up with me 🤭. Her intentions were good though, but I kinda felt he had unrequited feelings for her 🤷♀️.
