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Stayed after being cheated on?

TheFortress January 11th, 2020

Have any of you stayed with your significant other after being cheated on? If so, how did you get through it? How did you rebuild the trust, love, intimacy, etc? How did you forgive and move forward?

Thank you for any and all advice.
-TheFortress

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Zulegirl January 11th, 2020

@TheFortress

I have never stayed!!! Always left

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TheFortress OP January 11th, 2020

@Zulegirl I admire your strength and confidence.

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mack77 January 11th, 2020

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Dancersoul January 15th, 2020

@TheFortress My ex is a player and we are now just friends but he is already with someone else

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TheFortress OP January 15th, 2020

@Dancersoul Im not sure how you could stay friends with them. Im having a hard time even thinking about them.

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0pium77 February 15th, 2020

@TheFortress Hello

I stayed. My story was different though it was my wife that betrayed me, but it was an online/phone affair with an old friend of hers on Facebook that I discovered before it became actually physical.

I still considered it cheating though.
I wanted to tell you that it has been almost 6 years now since that happened, and I have taken the decision forgive and let go. However, these experiences always occupy you and later when times got tough between us as life would normally throw at you, I remember what happened and got more upset. It was unfair to her because I already told her I have let go.
I guess what I want to say is if u decide to forgive him and stay make sure u expect the residues to pop up again when the relationship gets stressed.
Letting go is not easy I know and maybe forgiving is best. It is noy weakness as long as you go through it and u are happy.
best of luck