Intro
My name is Obsi. I've had 3 significant others over the years, and I'm about a month past the last one breaking up with me. I'm Christian (which will come into play here in a bit,) and I'm almost at the point where I'm going to vow to be single.
TL;DR: All three people I've dated have been crazy to the point my family says I attract crazy, and I'm not sure if relationships are even worth it anymore.
The first girl I dated was a trainwreck. Her stepdad died while we were dating and I felt really guilty for not wanting to date her for the better part of our 6/7 month relationship. But problems kept coming up and she would always relapse into that horrible mental state. It finally ended when I learned she had relapsed onto drugs again (we were minors at the time) and I felt I could do nothing for her and being with her would only hurt me more.
The second decided she was a boy and then proceeded to manipulate me into thinking I was gay (I'm not).
The third... she was amazing up until the last week, when she got extremely hostile and finally broke it off and cut contact. It's been a rollercoaster and I'm frankly sick of trying with women. Should I give up? Should I just take a break? I dunno
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Hi Obsi
I think you perhaps need to spend some time doing self care. Then when you are ready you can look at whether you want to be in a relationship again
@LDmr819 thank you... I've been working on myself since it happened but it's slow going
@Obsi be patient, meditation and self love and development are the keys to becoming your authentic self
