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Obsi
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PathStep 4 Compassion hearts436 Forum posts39 Forum upvotes402 Current upvotes402 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2023 Member sinceMarch 22, 2023
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General Support / by Obsi
Last post
 May 8th, 2023
...See more So I've been struggling with an addiction for years, (won't go into details on a public forum but it's screwed my life over multiple times) and I've tried quitting multiple times. I am super proud to say I'm two weeks clean and feeling better than ever!
I did it, finally
Hobby Zone / by Obsi
Last post
 June 30th, 2023
...See more After seven years, I can now say that I am a black belt in TaeKwonDo! I'm really happy atm
Hi :)
Reading & Writing / by Obsi
Last post
 May 16th, 2023
...See more Is it okay if I drop a few of my stories in a thread? They're generally shorter but they can involve heavy stuff
What are your favorite coping mechanisms?
General Support / by Obsi
Last post
 March 31st, 2023
...See more for example: writing, drawing, music, etc.
Intro
Relationship Stress / by Obsi
Last post
 April 10th, 2023
...See more My name is Obsi. I've had 3 significant others over the years, and I'm about a month past the last one breaking up with me. I'm Christian (which will come into play here in a bit,) and I'm almost at the point where I'm going to vow to be single. TL;DR: All three people I've dated have been crazy to the point my family says I attract crazy, and I'm not sure if relationships are even worth it anymore. The first girl I dated was a trainwreck. Her stepdad died while we were dating and I felt really guilty for not wanting to date her for the better part of our 6/7 month relationship. But problems kept coming up and she would always relapse into that horrible mental state. It finally ended when I learned she had relapsed onto drugs again (we were minors at the time) and I felt I could do nothing for her and being with her would only hurt me more. The second decided she was a boy and then proceeded to manipulate me into thinking I was gay (I'm not). The third... she was amazing up until the last week, when she got extremely hostile and finally broke it off and cut contact. It's been a rollercoaster and I'm frankly sick of trying with women. Should I give up? Should I just take a break? I dunno
PFP troubles
General Support / by Obsi
Last post
 March 30th, 2023
...See more I have a drawing of my favorite OC that I write daily but I'm not sure if I can use it as a PFP... helpppppp
Opinion on dark humor?
General Support / by Obsi
Last post
 April 3rd, 2023
...See more My particular flavor of humor is generally pretty dark and i was wondering what yall's opinions of dark humor are? Is it healthy?
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