Check-in For September 2022
Hey hey lovely R&F Community!
Greetings, and happy September<3 Phew, it’s been so long since I made a check in post, I missed this. But sadly I couldn’t, due to offline circumstances and mental health, I had taken a break. But hopefully I’m more active now.
What about you all? Time to check in, how are you doing?
Looking forward to hearing from you all today<3 So here are the questions for this time<3
How was your day today?
How are relationships going in your life lately? (referring to all, not just romantic ones<3)
How is your relationship with yourself lately? Do you love yourself?
What is one change you’d like to make to improve your life?
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I’m doing well and so are my relationships. Each day i’m learning to love myself more and more. I can’t think of anything I want to change because i’m truly happy in life and i love it.
@Wittie96 Thank you so much for answering the check-in and I am really glad to hear that and proud of you for learning to love yourself more and more everyday! And yay you are so happy in your life and love it, wishing you all the very best<3
My day has been neutral and a bit unnatural at the moment. I’m currently grieving (my bf broke up with me two days ago). But as for relationships with friends and family, I’m learning to be more vulnerable. After the breakup, they’ve all supported me and my emotions, and have been showing me lots of love. I’ve been learning to love myself more and be more kind to myself.
Putting effort into learning more about myself and tending to my passions is a change I want to make. After the breakup, I realised I lost a part of myself (not including anything that had to do with my ex). I lost a bit of my authenticity after constantly thinking about my relationship with my ex. It’s going to be difficult because I forgot what I lost, but I know everything will turn out okay in the end :)))
@willinggrapes Thank you for answering the check in!
: ) thank you for the check in
Lots of love towards everyone <3
@LavenderHere
https://www.7cups.com/home/relationships/?rid=264003771 sure how all of this works. But... Here I go: how was my day to day? Not awesome. I keep.letting someone hurt me. He has show me time and again that he will not change. I'm.noy trying to change him, but fell for his 🐃 💩 again!! Urghhhh
I don't really need advice. I know better I know what I should do. I need a reality.check I suppose,, because at the end if the day, I still want him to come back so we can be together again. Its dumb. There's is zero trust
I have turned into that stupid person that keeps giving him more chances and keeps believing his means it this time. He never did This is not how I normally am. And I do know better what is wrong with me
@808cincinway thank you for answering the check in!
Please feel free to reach out for help anytime you need, we're here for you!
Hi there. I’m not doing great. I mean better than last month. But… my depression is kicking in hard. My anxiety is still hard to deal with. I’m leaving for a residential treatment program on Tuesday, September 6th. Dangggg, that’s coming up quickly. I will not have access to my phone while I’m there. Being in new environments is the fear of the unknown. I know there is a lot of support staff there. Just again Fear and also … can’t forget the change in living environment
@leannescarlett Thank you so much for answering the check-in!
For the first time, I have been able to get over my ptsd and to be really close both physically and mentally with a man. After, this experience, I’ve realized that I no longer evade men as much. For the longest time, I’ve feared getting intimate both mentally and physically due to fear of being abused. The saddest thing, is that I can’t recall as to why I would fear intimacy with men. It’s probably because of my undiagnosed major depression and ptsd. On to a more, positive note I feel more empowered as a woman knowing that, I just needed to take my time to heal. Even if, those moments, that I shared with him didn’t mean as much to him, I won’t fret because they are moments that will live on in me forever.
@secretFriend2402 Thank you so much for answering the check-in!
How was your day today? not great
How are relationships going in your life lately? (referring to all, not just romantic ones<3) okay
How is your relationship with yourself lately? Do you love yourself? bad, no
What is one change you’d like to make to improve your life? I wanna love myself
@tallWalker4850 Thank you so much for answering the check-in!
@LavenderHere
Hi! Thank you so much! I've been allowing myself to mad mistakes, allowing myself to not be okay sometimes, and it's helped so so so so much!
@tallWalker4850 I hear you, that's a lovely step to take and I'm glad it helpedddddd
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How was your day today?
Not bad, a little slow going but can't really complain.
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How are relationships going in your life lately? (referring to all, not just romantic ones<3)
Pretty great! I've focused on surrounding myself with people who have a positive influence on my life rather than trying to hold on to old toxic relationships. Quality over quantity for me now!
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How is your relationship with yourself lately? Do you love yourself?
Still a journey but getting better each day.
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What is one change you’d like to make to improve your life?
I'd like to believe in myself more.
@BeautifulWinter9949 Thank you so much for answering the check-in!
Hi, I am. Not doing to well with relationships at the moment. I most likely screwed up byaking an accusation about my gf of 20 years. And she seems to be punishing me for it I did apologize for the remark I made . So my day sucked relationship with myself is well ok kicking my self in the rear but there was reason to be supicious. Still is
@toughWriter1030 Thank you so much for answering the check in.
Thank you Lavender it is a tough one but idk really all the signs are there. But I can't say it out loud. Anyways thank you for the good wishes everything is about the same here hope you are doing well.
@toughWriter1030 Oh no that's tough, that you can't tell her the accusation even tho you are certain and all the signs are there, I hope it gets better
I had a good day, watched general conference.
My relationships are going ok. I might not get to keep seeing this grad student I've been dating for two months. I don't have any friends. My family doesn't make an effort.
I do lots of things for myself. Paint draw. Apply to scholarships. Work on school do yoga.
I wish I could be less anxious.
@LoganMeow01 Thank you so much for answering the check in.
I’m doing ass. I’m still drinking a lot and want to drink my liver into failure.
@inventiveStrings8867 Thank you so much for answering the check in