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unusual breakup

melodyl623 October 18th, 2019

me and my bf were forced to breakup by my sister and my brother in law who i live with. none of us wanted this and im not sure how to deal with it. its really hard for me but im more worried about him and how this will affect him. im not allowed to have any contact with him.

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kitkat34567 October 18th, 2019

@melodyl623 Why did they force you to break up with your boyfriend ? were you happy with him etc:?

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melodyl623 OP October 18th, 2019

@kitkat34567 i was happy with him. its cause i met him online.

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kitkat34567 October 19th, 2019

@melodyl623 how old are you and him and yeah you have to be careful online never know who you run into i went through someting similar but he had mental illness so i had no choice to break up

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melodyl623 OP October 19th, 2019

@kitkat34567 im 15 and he had just turned 18. when we started dating he was 17.

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Zulegirl October 18th, 2019

@melodyl623

that is messed up love!! I am so sorry...

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melodyl623 OP October 18th, 2019

@Zulegirl i know when i asked her if i could tell him what was going on she said he didnt deserve to know

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freshLight64 October 18th, 2019

@melodyl623

I understand you live with them, it might be difficult to handle this situation for you since it involves family. I'm really concern about the way they forced you to make a decision you didn't want. I don't know your age, but if you are over 18 then they don't really have a right to tell you what you should do. It's important to be able to make your own decisions, and sticking to them. You have a sense of self, it can't be where you are doing whatever they want without thinking about what you want.

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melodyl623 OP October 19th, 2019

@freshLight64 im 15 so yeah i get they can do that. they said they know its hard for me but i feel like they arent even trying to understand how i truly feel

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freshLight64 October 19th, 2019

@melodyl623

Oh okay I understand, it does seem like they don't understand the love you feel for one another. It's a very rough breakup this way.

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kitkat34567 October 19th, 2019

@melodyl623 your 15 is why they acted like that because your minor the person on the other end could have been a pedophile i think you should try to find a boyfriend in real life then online.

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