i don’t understand
my boyfriend broke up with me about a week ago
he said that he was too busy and he couldn’t even see his friends
and he couldn’t handle a relationship if we couldn’t talk or see each other
he cried the whole time
but when i tried to be near him he pushed me away
he said it’ll be easy for me to move on and that i deserved a lot better
at the start of the relationship i told him i needed a person i could depend on and he promised he could give that to me
so maybe that’s what crushed him that he couldn’t keep that promise
but i have a feeling there’s something he didn’t tell me and i don’t know if he actually cared or not
at the end he didn’t want to leave me on my own and wanted to take me home
but i wanted to break things off better than that and i tried to kiss him
and he broke down completely and didn’t let me
kissed me on the forehead and left me on a park bench
i don’t know what to do we haven’t talked since
when i saw him he pretended not to see me but he looked crushed
even though i was ok i would have had no problem talking to him
i really fucking miss him
I understand. I broke up with my boyfriend but I miss him all the time. For me it’s a little different but honestly the breakup was coming. We were toxic with each other, mostly me to him tbh.
i would honor my feelings and maybe there IS something he isn’t telling you. Maybe it would really hurt your feelings if he did. Try to be positive: he is crushed so he does care about you. You never know if in some time you will be back together. Don’t do anything you’ll regret if you know what I mean.
feel better and try to focus on you. Look as cute as possible. It’s normal to miss him. Be good to yourself.hope this helps
im a guy:
how long were you guys together?
did he ever mention this during the relationship?
do you feel rejected or miss him?
what value did he add to your life and what value did you add to him?
tip. Talk to us about your feelings don’t talk to him. He needs to see how life is without you!
@sincereFriend8554
we were together for a few months
i’m 16, he’s 20
so our lifestyles are completely different
but it felt good when we were together and i feel like it was cut off before it had the chance to properly settle
he said it would only get worse if it went on
and that if it had started sooner or after school/uni started it probably would have lasted but i don’t know if that was to make me feel better or if it was sincere
at the very beginning we was more involved than i was, i had doubts because i don’t trust easily but again he convinced me that it was worth a try
which is the reason why it’s hard
i don’t really know what value it added to his life at this point
we both wanted to do so many things together
but i know that i was happier and opened up for once
@brightThinker8130
we talked about the age difference but agreed that because i’m mature for my age it worked
but maybe he changed his mind or something
his ex cheated on him so that came up too
we only started talking less when school started again and he said a couple weeks ago “you know it’s only going to get harder the more it goes on”
but i THOUGHT we agreed we were going to work on iy
then he went to vienna for a week and we didn’t see each other for another week
and then we broke up
so i’m thinking something happened in vienna
@brightThinker8130
also i asked if he was sure he wanted to break up and he said he wasn’t at all
that he might regret it in the future but that it was the “right choice”
the only choice
so maybe something happened that messed his head up and convinced him that it was all over
and felt guilty talking to me about what he was feeling