dont know what to do
hello,
my ex and i broke up exactly 2 weeks ago and idrk what to do at this point. i feel like i have no one to talk to and honestly i just feel pretty lonely. i go on dating apps to hopefully talk to new girls but that doesnt really work because it just feels monotonous in my opinion.
i just feel like talking to new women at this point, but idk where to even start or how to meet new people. obviously post breakup I realized that i need to work on myself (as does she). but also i want to be able to work on myself while talking to new people.
i dont really even know what im asking at this point but i kind of just feel lost? idk how to explain it but i just feel really lonely now even though im not. i have plenty of friends but i just want something new and exciting again.
slixy
@slixy
Maybe instead of dating apps make a female friend ....
look up and see if your area has clubs like a hiking club book club / wine tasting etc .... without pressure of it being date sometimes a friend of the opposite sex can give you pointers on self improvement .....
it could turn into something but start out with a friend give you a person to bounce ideas off of
i actually dont have any female friends come to think of it. idk why but i always see the opposite sex as people that “are potential interests.” i think im just wanting the feeling of love without really understanding what it fully means, as u need to love someone you see yourself in and know you would be compatible with. i actually really like this idea. thank you for giving me something to try and figure out, as i think im putting too much pressure on nothing.