breakup after almost 2 years
i was broken up with this afternoon. i know almost 2 years doesn't seem like much in the grand scheme of things, but i love her so, so much and we had so many plans for our future together i can't help but feel really, really lost. i don't know what i want anymore right now and i'm just heartbroken and most of it is my fault.
i would love some support/advice on how to cope with this because i really feel like my whole world has just stopped. thank you ❤️
@mobteru
Hii Ava, good to see you in the forums again. *sits with youuu*
It's okay to not think about the grand scheme of things, 2 years is still a lot of time with someone, any amount of time full of being invested emotionally should be good enough to grieve for later, you are allowed to. ❤
Breakups are heart shattering truly, especially when we've planned a lot with them. To feel like your whole world has crashed, and that random wave of uncertainty hitting hard- "now what?, to live life without a person I'd never imagine i will have to", super valid to feel as you do, lovely. I get how the thoughts about you being mostly responsible for the breakup are even more cathartic. :/
I don't think there's any one way out here. I'd like to assure you though, you are more than allowed to take all the time in processing the situation, and letting yourself feel, even the heavier emotions ..... specially the heavier emotions.
Take your time always okie? I'm glad you're reaching out for support in 7 cups, you really do not have to brave through this alone, it's okay and sometimes needed to lean on a shoulder.
*sending a ton of comfy hugs and lots of love* ❤
Here for you, if you need to talk/ share anything.
