Was I sexually assaulted by my ex-husband?

I am going to keep this simple and is more of a request....does anyone have experience with sexual assault and/or have ever questioned if what experienced was sexual assault? Additionally, bonus question, was it your ex-husband who is the father of your children and have been divorced from fro three years? I think that last part isn't as important as you who it was, but could be compared to someone you trusted or have to have an on going relationship with? Maybe it may even something similar to this? I think answering this question is going to be the first step in figuring out if it is even having and effect on me or if I'm just supressing feelings and pretending it never happened which will lead to really bad things later on when it comes out emotionally.....I need to know if there are any listeners who can assist me with this specific issue? I don't know if I can go into details here...