Want to start over but he hasn't contacted me
The guy was really sweet, caring and I really thought I'd have a future with him. I only remember the good things even if we've stopped talking for about a month now.
He said he wanted to take a "pause" for a little bit because he was busy and I got so upset that I replied a week after that I need the "pause" too to clear my head. He was still sweet and sent me a hug gif on that day.
The day after, I saw that he had activated his dating profile (where we met) so I told him to find someone else. Never heard from him since (more than a month now).
I feel so much pain thinking about him and I find myself in tears. He lied to me but I still want him back. I could initiate contact but a big part of me thinks that since he's never initiated contact, then nothing else could be done even if I text him.
What should I do? I think of him everyday and I know he's a good person. The pain and sadness are too much sometimes. To the point that I randomly cry mostly at night...
I read your post. He did not msg you back after the last message. So definitely he need time from the relationship..he is unsure about the relationship.
Many time people dont say goodbye but ignore or say let take break ,are way to have silent closure from their side. But I could see still their is not clarity.
You want a clarity you can msg him but prepare for both best and worst scenario if he dont reply or say he dont need you anymore.
Because for you to move on in life you have to end this chapter or begin this chapter. His reply will give you clarity
Remember dear if reply dont turn positivr. Dont feel bad of yourself. Atall. Its his choice. He might need something else. We r not here to fit to someone else need. Be yourself as you r as You seem nice person.
Hope he reply positive to you. Take care
