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willinggrapes October 2nd, 2022
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Hello,


I’m in this state of confusion. I want to ask my ex for a second chance, but at the same time I’m scared that I’ll miss out on an opportunity to find someone who may fit me more in the future?


I just feel selfish for wanting more in a person, and I feel like maybe I should just be more grateful for my ex (if we do agree to get back together). And maybe me and my ex might actually work out in the future. So now, I’m not sure what to do.

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toughTiger6481 October 2nd, 2022
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@willinggrapes

In my case the EX is a safety net and it is not selfish or wrong to look for that perfect fit.....

too many people IMO hold on to things taht are not working in case the right fit does not come along....

dukeofdearham October 3rd, 2022
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@willinggrapes,

if you think you might miss upon a better fit, that simply means your ex is not a good fit. Otherwise you would not have thoughts like that.

It's wouldn't be fair to you and your ex.

Leave her. Let her go. Focus on you.

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